If you trust my judgment, you can put everything in a saucepan at once. If you want to play with it, put everything up to the crushed jalapeno, and taste after adding each ingredient. When it is to your liking, bring to a simmer on low heat and simmer for about 10 minutes. Let the sauce cool to room temperature, then store, covered, in the refrigerator.
Notes
If you don't like spicy at all, omit the Aleppo, jalapeno, chipotle, and cayenne.
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